Betty is currently Minister of Caring for an international church and
television ministry, and a staff member for Christian Leaders Authors
and Speakers Seminar. She holds a Master's Degree from Fuller Seminary,
with an emphasis in family counseling. Betty is a dynamic communicator
who lives in the fullness of what God has taught her and shares from
the abundance of what she has learned.
Betty's Speaking Topics:
• Choices! - Are you held hostage by your
circumstance, unable to move out of depression and into freedom and
wholeness? Wait! Think again! You may not be able to rearrange your
situation or change that difficult person in your life, but there is
something you CAN do! You have a choice. Your mission is to find it,
then make it! Let Betty help you take a closer look at that circumstance.
You'll find God at its center, offering some unique choices that will
bring you the freedom and peace you almost gave up!
• Changes! - There are transition places somewhere between
life's "endings" and "new beginnings" that can be
as unsettling as a twilight zone. We all experience them. We all face
them differently. But how do we best get through them? Betty shows you
the progressive pattern of every transition and encourages you with
the truth that your transition is not the end—but a bend—in
the road. This session will help you understand the three stages of
change, equip you for your present transition, and prepare you for the
next one. A universally relevant topic for today's woman or man!
• Challenges! - We face challenges every day and either
run from them or accept them. Betty focuses on the grace and courage
that God gives us to accept our challenges, as well as the empowerment
to meet them and mature through them. Collaborate with Betty to tailor
this topic to meet your group's specific need. Use this session as a
powerful wrap-up and motivational send-off for any retreat or closing
keynote.
Choose any of the three above or from Betty's
delightful topics below.
Group them progressively for retreats or use them separately for any
single event.
• The Mentor Quest - Have you ever wished you
could have your own mentor - someone who was older and wiser, someone
who would be willing to help you learn and grow? Betty Southard helps
you discover that your best mentors are available, all around you, you
only need to develop “mentoring eyes.” This talk will help
you identify the resources that are available through parents, friends,
co-workers, neighbors and professionals, as well as the mentoring potential
in sermons, conferences, radio and TV ministries and books. Through
a series of questions you will discover what you really want in life
and how to find the guidance and direction to reach your goals. You
will receive both the inspiration, encouragement and the tools you need
to become all that God has designed you to be. Stop hoping in vain for
that one special, all-wise person to step forward as your mentor. Look
at the wealth of resources around you. Start your own Mentor Quest today!
• Walk with Me……on the Path to Spiritual Maturity
- A spiritual woman has relationship with God that is so tangible
you can almost feel it. Her impact extends well beyond her own life
to touch the lives of many. How do we develop that sort of tangible
spirituality? Betty tells the stories of the women whose spirituality
impacted her life as she defines the steps for developing a spiritual
growth pattern. She presents an exciting challenge to develop a life
mission statement, and practical help for disciplining ourselves for
maturity. This message is sure to spark any woman to deepen her relationship
with God, and challenge her to stretch to new heights.
• Come As You Are - How often have you resolved
to rise at the crack of dawn to spend time with God, then suffered guilt
because you couldn't stay awake past "Dear Lord?" Why doesn't
your spirituality look like everyone else's? It's simple! God made each
of us with a specific personality that plays a powerful role in defining
and building our relationship with Him. He loves our uniqueness and
wants us to approach Him in our own distinct style. Betty shares from
Her newest book this powerful message to help you understand how you
can grow closer to God just the way you are. You will not only be freed
from guilt, you will learn to accept the different spiritual styles
of others. Give your women, couples, or leaders a gift of renewed spiritual
vitality with this liberating message!
• Hold On To Your Fork! - Are you searching for
your purpose in life, wondering why you exist? Well, hold on to your
fork! You're not finished yet! God has plans for you that just might
surprise you. It's time for us to become the on-purpose women God meant
us to be. Women willing to make an impact in everyday moments. Women
who dream dreams, then set goals to meet them. No matter what your age,
occupation or stage in life, this message will challenge and empower
you to move forward with God's plan. Let Betty help you discover the
secret of the fork and inspire you to find your next step!
• It's Never Too Late! - Every relationship is
strained by life's misunderstandings and circumstances. But sometimes
that relational elastic seems stretched beyond repair and we feel it’s
far too late for things to change. Betty brings God's assurance in this
powerful message—it is never too late! Using humor and practical
illustrations, Betty will challenge you with new perspective, give you
fresh determination, and renew your faith that God can restore relationship.
For a delightful mother-daughter event, Betty can be joined by her daughters.
• Grandma Calls Me "Precious!" - Retire
that rocker—Grandma's at the gym! Though today's millennial grandma
relates with kids over colas or cappuccino, she has the same mission
as her own grandma did – to make a positive impact on her grandchildren's
lives and invest them with unconditional love and acceptance. If you're
a grandparent, intimidated by your high-tech grandchild, sidelined by
schedule challenges, or caught in sticky family politics, you'll be
inspired with practical ideas for accomplishing your mission. If you're
a parent, overwhelmed by the task of equipping your child with strong
values and faith, you'll find hope in the reminder that your most powerful
resource on earth—is just a grandma away!
• Productive Partnerships - Is your marriage
a productive partnership or troubled twosome? There is no single success
formula for all marriages, but there are principles we can all use to
build positive relationship. Combining her counseling background with
her own experience, Betty shares ten principles for making marriage
work. A great message of practical truth for "long-term" or
"brand-new" partnerships! For a delightful couple's event,
Betty can be joined by her husband, Fred, who has his own insights for
holding steady in a family of three daughters and seven grandchildren!
• Don't Worry — Be Happy! - Sudden bills
outstrip our income. Don’t worry. Our children make destructive
choices. Don’t worry. We receive dreaded news. Don’t worry.
But how can we stop worrying when life is running wild and we can't
contain it? Betty brings us back to the basics of bedrock trust in this
powerful scriptural reminder of God's principles for coping with crisis.
Let go of worry and live in God's peace as you learn Betty's practical
steps for coping with life's stress.
• Everything We Need - They are a powerful pair
that infect and paralyze us all. You know them…the "if only-thens!"
They trap us in wishful immobility by nagging us with the one thing
we think we need to live in life's fullness. But, good news! God has
already given us all we need to live there! Using scripture, illustrations,
and visuals, Betty shows us what we have been given to meet every need
and face any challenge. An empowering message of solid hope in what
God has promised and a strong challenge to use what He has given!
• Driven — Or Directed? - Look at that
calendar! Meetings…Deadlines… …Appointments…
So much to do. No time to breathe. CONGRATULATIONS—you have become
a human doing! You are the answer to everyone's prayer, running to the
call of each clamoring voice. But what does God want for you? Betty
weaves Biblical principles into this powerful message to create a meaningful
change of focus. As she shares her four steps for living a God-directed
life, you will learn how to hear God's voice in quiet moments, and discern
the difference between "doing" and "being," and
respond to His direction. Take a deep life-changing breath and go home
filled with His Spirit of peace and a new resolve to trade in your driven
life for a God-directed one!
• Hassle-Free Holidays! - Betty successfully
adapts this same topic for holiday events, giving practical advice on
staying focused without getting frayed!
• Gifted — And Wrapped — By God -
God gives each one of us unique gifts for His purposes, but did you
know that He also chooses the wrapping? Let Betty help you take a closer
look at both your gift and the personality God wrapped around it. Learn
why you think and act so differently from others, and discover that
both your gifts and your personality are priceless to God! Betty brings
her own unique expertise as a certified personality trainer to this
topic, and can be joined by her husband, Fred, for a dynamic challenge
to couples needing new perspective for their marriages.
• Friendship is a Choice - Friendships don't
"just happen," they are cultivated! Betty talks about what
it takes to make a friend and be a friend. A true relationship builder–perfect
for any women's event!
Meeting Planners Say:
• Practical, down to earth, honest, vulnerable,
very helpful, Scripture based, instructive, touched our hearts, encouraging,
excellent communicator, fresh material, life changing and inspirational.
Betty Says:
I get a lot of laughs during my talks, as I include telling stories
on myself. My talks are not boring or dry.
Gospel Presentation?
Yes, I am happy to work in a Salvation message and decision time according
to the desires of the group.
Why Betty Speaks:
I speak out of a great love for the Lord and passion
to make a difference by encouraging others to a closer walk with Him.
Betty's Goal:
My goal is to bring members of the audience to a personal
discovery and decision to take action according to what God shows them
is their greatest need at the moment. Give encouragement and instruction
to help them make positive changes in their lives. If audience members
have not received Christ as Savior, I hope to lead them to do so. I
hope to encourage my audience in Christian growth through Bible study,
prayer, and other methods of learning.